Relations!!! They change....

Congratulations world!!!! for new 7 wonders, I have dwelled enough into it, but I am yet to understand the history and significance of the
2 natural wonders of the world,
the man and the woman, in a relationship.

For the reason, the more I dig into it, the more haywired I get.
I just want to know, understand these differences which most of them do not understand and term them as changes growing out of newly built attitude, ego,
lack of concern or what ever.
Years ago, he was a stranger, he came into  her life and
things suddenly changed.Life became a bed of thornless roses. She saw the
world completely coloured pink.
Oh wow how beautiful!!!!
Likewise, he saw what an angel she was, how perfectly god tailored her for him,
how could be he so favored by luck???

They were completely in love with each other,
there were rainbows all over sky. How cannot people see the
upcoming spring, why they complain of fall???
Happiness comes in disguised as love!!!!
Love is the most effective teacher, it teaches you what all you could have never dreamt off.

Eventually, he sees he is missing yet another important aspect of his life, his friends!!!!
He loves them too...


When I am giving 24 hours to her, then cant she give me back an hour or so to myself???? Oh common, she is the best girl in my life and dats so because she understands me perfectly,
and she wouldn't mind an hour.
Will an hour in my day would make her upset??? NO!!


Whats happening???? Its 10 in the nite, he is supposed to call me, what's he doing??? where is he???
Even yesterday he was late, I hope am not askin him too much out of life, but he has promised to be with me whenever he needs me, then why this distance today??? Should I ask him or not???
Hell leave it...I am gettin too much paranoid... How can I live with him for the coming 60 years of life if this is the way I am goin to think???
And then the phone rings, lol.. see that smile...Did anyone see her so happy in the entire day???

Time slowly passes away, there is this career they have to chase... earn money.. build a house... Oh life!! wen wud u give peace a chance??


Why is she like this?? Common I want some place for myself, she never understands me, how can
she expect me to be with her every moment of my life? She was not like this earlier,
she used to be calmer,but now she wants a reason of every breath I take!! Whats her problem??
Why doesn't she give me any space??
Oh god..He z changed completely... I am completely baffled by his behaviour...
I left my friends, my family for him and it looks as though he is going to leave me,
he does not need me anymore... I am just a past for him.
All he needs is career, friends, money.. where do I stand??? He is left with no time for me..
When he knows he wants me to give him space, why doesn't he know what I want???
He used to say he loved me thrice an hour, and now?? Once in 3 days, I have to remind him we are supposedly in love..

Now, I want to know, who has changed??? He or she???
or was there some thing else we missed out???
The time!!! Time changes everything...
Everyone is a target of the same old TIME!!!
We want nations to change with time, but we are scared to see
ourselves changing wid time!!

Please give her the protection, or reassurance of your love for her she wants...
Jus tell her how much u need her and look what you have done to her??
She smiled again!!! She feels blessed again!!!
Give him some space for himself, he wants to come back to you,
but your questions repel him...He still loves u!!
He wants a companion not a boss...
He has one already their hanging on his head...

If your partner has changed, you have also done to the same extent,
or may be more since u see everything different...

This was just one attempt from me to understand a relationship from the perspective of
both sides of the coin.. Would u ve been happy if it was always sunny or rainy or snowy???
What if nights stopped happening???

Think it over!!!
Love is a beautiful garden...
But u cant admire the beauty if u can't see the fall,
Just be patient, spring has time to come!!!!